Hey, friends, do you sometimes feel that a long-distance relationship is like a marathon with no end, and it just breaks up while running? Don’t worry, today I will give you some tips on how to get back together after a long-distance relationship breaks up, so that your love can rekindle the spark of hope!
1. Calm down and analyze the real reason for the breakup
First of all, we have to understand one thing: the breakup is not sudden, and there must be deep-seated reasons behind it. So, when you receive the words “Let’s break up”, don’t rush to cry and fight, let alone impulsively ask the other party why. What you need to do is to calm down and analyze the real reason for your breakup.
Tips: You can try to recall whether you have any conflicts that have not been resolved recently? Is the communication becoming less and less, and the relationship becoming less and less? Or is it because of the intervention of a third party? Only by finding the root cause of the problem can you prescribe the right medicine and lay a solid foundation for reconciliation.
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2. Keep in touch, but don’t get too entangled
After breaking up, many people either choose to completely disconnect or entangle each other crazily. Both of these practices are wrong. Complete disconnection will make your relationship more and more distant, while crazy entanglement will make the other party more disgusted with you. Therefore, the right way is to maintain appropriate contact, let the other party know that you are still there, but not to feel pressure.
Tips: You can send a caring text message to the other party every once in a while, such as “How are you recently? The weather is cold, remember to put on more clothes.” Or share some little fun things in your life. Such contact will not bore the other party, and can also keep your relationship at a certain temperature.
3. Self-improvement, let the other party see your changes
Long-distance relationships often break up because both parties are standing still and have no growth and progress. So, if you want to get back together, you have to make yourself better first. Whether it is the external image or the inner cultivation, you have to work hard to improve.
Tips: You can start fitness to shape a better body; you can learn a new skill, such as cooking, photography, painting, etc., to make yourself more talented; you can also read more books to improve your depth of thought and knowledge. When you become good enough, the other party will naturally see your changes and will reconsider your relationship.
4. Create opportunities and create surprises for meeting
The biggest problem of long-distance relationships is distance, so if you want to get back together, you have to find a way to create opportunities for the other party to feel your presence and warmth. The best way is to create some surprises for meeting.
Tips: You can plan a trip in advance and invite the other party to go together. Or find a city that the other party likes and arrange a romantic date. When you meet, you can prepare some small gifts or surprises, such as a bouquet of flowers, a book she (he) likes, or a carefully prepared dinner. These small details can make the other person feel your care and love.
5. Deep communication to solve fundamental problems
When you have the opportunity to meet, you must seize it and have a deep communication. This communication is not just a simple chat or complaint, but to really solve the problems between you.
Tips: When communicating, you must remain calm and rational, and don’t blame the other party or complain all the time. You can first express your cherishment and reluctance to this relationship, and then slowly bring out the problems between you. When discussing the problem, you should listen more to the other party’s thoughts and feelings, and also express your own thoughts and needs frankly. Only when both parties open their hearts can they really find a solution to the problem.
Epilogue: Love requires courage and wisdom
Oh, after saying so much, I wonder if you have realized the true meaning of long-distance relationship reunion? In fact, love requires both courage and wisdom. Courage is to make you dare to pursue your own happiness; and wisdom is to make you take fewer detours and suffer less harm in the process of pursuing happiness.
So, my friends, if you are also experiencing the pain of breaking up in a long-distance relationship, don’t be anxious or discouraged! As long as you feel, work hard, and change with your heart, you will be able to save your own love! Come on, come on, come on!
Remember, love is not a game, but a journey that needs to be managed with heart. Only when you really understand how to love and how to cherish, can you harvest your own happiness and sweetness in this journey!
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