In the world of love, many people have experienced the moment of “heartbeat”. It is like a gust of wind, coming quickly and going quickly, making you feel excited and uneasy.Driven by the novelty and passion, we often become dependent on those “heartbeaters” who suddenly appear in our lives, and even imagine that this is our true “love”.True love is often not heartbeat, but long-term companionship and loyalty.
Many people ignore the partner who has been with them because of the novelty, and eventually miss the most trustworthy and reliable person because of a momentary impulse.
1. The moment of heartbeat does not represent the depth of love
Heartbeat is an instinctive physiological reaction, which can make you feel intense emotional fluctuations in an instant. But behind the heartbeat, there is often a desire for new things and a desire to explore the unknown world.You may be attracted by someone’s appearance, temperament or behavior, and have a short-term enthusiasm, and even begin to imagine that you and him will have a future. Please remember that heartbeat does not equal love.
Love requires the accumulation of time, the establishment of trust and deep understanding. Heartbeat is often just a momentary impulse. It does not mean that you really understand this person, nor does it mean that he can bring you real security and happiness.
Many people will lose themselves and make some impulsive decisions under the stimulation of heartbeat. Especially in the relationship with their partner, once a new temptation appears, it is easy to be attracted by it, and ignore the long-term companionship and the person who really understands themselves.
The final result is that after a short heartbeat, when you look back, you find that the person did not provide you with any practical support and stability.
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2. Freshness is a kind of “poison” in feelings
Freshness is a kind of “poison” in feelings. It will make you feel excited and full of expectations, but it is also easy for you to make wrong decisions impulsively.
When you are immersed in the vortex of freshness, you may ignore various problems in reality and even forget the people who have been with you for a long time.
The stimulation brought by freshness often makes people ignore whether the other person is really suitable for themselves and whether they can bring you long-term peace of mind and dependence.
When the freshness disappears, you will realize that you are confused by the short-term passion in front of you and forget the person who has paid for you and is always by your side.
3. Freshness is a kind of “poison” in feelings
Freshness is a kind of “poison” in feelings. It will make you feel excited and full of expectations, but it is also easy for you to make wrong decisions impulsively.
When you are immersed in the whirlpool of freshness, you may ignore various problems in reality and even forget the people who have been with you for a long time.
The stimulation brought by freshness often makes people ignore whether the other person is really suitable for themselves and whether they can bring you long-term peace of mind and dependence.
When the freshness disappears, you will realize that you are confused by the short-term passion in front of you and forget the person who has paid for you and is always by your side.
4. True love is day-to-day companionship
The essence of true love is that two people can still maintain tacit understanding and companionship in ordinary days. When you have experienced a long period of companionship, you will find that loving a person is not because he can make you heartbeat, but because there is a deep emotion between you.
Instead of pursuing short-term passion and heartbeat, it is better to cherish the person who has been silently accompanying you for a long time. Because only he will stay with you for a lifetime. Take care of you when you are sick and accompany you when life prompts you.
With him, even if daily life becomes monotonous and boring, you can still find a sense of security and belonging in each other’s care.
True love is never a momentary heartbeat, but persistence and companionship day after day. Some people are always by your side when you need it most, providing you with support and encouragement.
No matter how tempting the outside world is, your true love is still the one who is always by your side, and is the best guardian of a person’s life.
“The person who can make you heartbeat may not necessarily make you feel at ease.” In a relationship, heartbeat is a temporary passion, while loyalty is a lifelong choice.
Because true love is the persistent companionship in the triviality and dullness of life, and the deep feelings cultivated in countless nights of dependence and companionship.
For the rest of your life, don’t abandon the person who has always been with you and never left you when you need it most because of a temporary freshness.
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