In theory, the future and love are two different things.
But there are always times when the two seem to conflict.
For example, two people are not in the same place, so they have to make a choice, such as entering into marriage, the other party asks you to give up your job, such as after marriage, it seems that you can only resign for some reasons.
It seems that there are always times when you need to make a choice between the future and love.
At this time, if your job is not very good, very ordinary, and you can find a job easily after giving it up, it doesn’t matter.
If your job is good, stable, and rare, then you’d better think twice.
It’s best not to give up a good job opportunity just because you want to get married or because of marriage.
It’s hard to find it again, and you will regret it.
In a person’s life, good opportunities are very limited.
Many people have never met many good opportunities in their entire lives, and they have just been in a state of neither pain nor itch.
For more people, a good opportunity may only be once. Once you miss it, give up, and lose it, you will never have it again, and you will never have the chance to meet it again.
Therefore, once you give up your good job easily, when you keep hitting a wall later, and you are not satisfied no matter how you look for it, you are always floating around, and your life is full of twists and turns, and you can’t settle down at all, you will feel really bad.
It’s easy for you to feel regretful, and feel that you shouldn’t be so careless, and then you will be trapped in this self-blame.
Especially, after you get married, you find that marriage is just like this, but it’s just boring, money is so important, and the other party doesn’t treat you well at all, and your regret in your heart will be infinitely magnified.
How easy it was to give up, how cool you left, how indifferent you thought it was, how regretful you will be afterwards, how stupid you feel, and how you keep blaming yourself.
And at that time, no matter how much you regret it, it will be useless, you can’t go back at all, and you can’t change anything. Once you give up, no one will bear all the consequences for you, you can only bear it yourself.
If your career is not good, you will have no confidence.
You think love is above everything else. In fact, when a person chooses you, it is often not so pure. The other party is willing to choose you because they see that you are good in all aspects.
Among them, your good job has always been a good blessing. It proves yourself and makes the other party feel that you are valuable and worthwhile, which makes the other party feel proud.
There is no need to deny that many people choose to marry each other based on their work, and many people even show off with it.
That is your capital, and when you don’t care and choose to give up casually, when you don’t have a job, even if you are working, your job is not very good at all, and your income is very low. At that time, your partner and your partner’s family may really become a little different.
A housewife who does not make money always has no status at home. A person who has a bad job and a low income will always seem very unconfident in marriage, and even difficult to be respected.
Love is romantic, but marriage is realistic. There is no pampering as always. Only when you are strong enough, the other party will value your feelings and dare not despise you.
In this life, your income and your good job have always been your survival capital and your best support.
If you don’t want to become very pitiful later, it is unreliable to just expect others to have a conscience. You have to stand up for yourself.
A good job is always the most reliable.
When you marry someone, even if the other person loves you very much and treats you well at the moment, it does not guarantee that the other person will never change his mind and your marriage will never have problems.
Many people love very much at the beginning, but once they don’t love, they are really as ruthless as they can be.
At the least, they will calculate all kinds of property and make you leave the house, and at the worst, they may even turn against you and hurt your life.
It is very unrealistic to put all your life on one person. People with this kind of thinking will mostly live very cautiously, and their final end is often miserable.
Love is not that reliable, but your career and a good job will be more reliable.
That will allow you to always have an income to support yourself, and it will be your best way out. Once the marriage cannot go on one day, you will be able to take responsibility for yourself and not be left with nowhere to go.
There is a place to receive your household registration and a house for you to live in, so you can guarantee three meals a day and continue your future path.
When entering into marriage, of course you have to manage it well with your partner and strive to make it last for a long time, but at the same time, you can’t completely cut off your own way out. The worse the other person makes you feel, the more you have to know how to plan for yourself.
It’s best not to give up a good job for marriage.
Unless the other person is in good condition and is willing to share everything with you, unless you find a better one and will not fall into trouble, unless you will not regret it no matter what happens in the future, and have the courage to start over.
You must think clearly about your own destiny, and you must control it well.
Getting married can’t save you, and it can’t make you happy from now on.
It can be said that if you choose to get married, your marriage partner may not be able to take responsibility for himself in many cases. If the other person has a problem taking responsibility for himself, and you still want him to take responsibility for you, then it is obviously quite stupid.
Maybe the other person still wants to count on you and wants to get a lot from you.
Always remember that it is best to have both career and love. If there is a conflict, you must make a careful decision. The right person will not let you give up your future, but will only stand in your future.
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